Six ways silence can be used: Build trust, Emphasise a point, Negotiate, Empower others, Get answers, Centre yourself When we choose not to talk or not to speak out, we are taking a step in communication that is more powerful … Continue reading The power of silence
If I were a mathematician I may be able to present this idea in a better way. I shall try to convey this concept using my creative skills and writing ability to compensate for my lack of numeric prowess. I … Continue reading The angle of deviation
We enter this world as the purest, divine and spiritually connected life at the moment of birth. A ‘seedling’ with all the DNA, genetics and blueprint to develop into a flower from that point in time. We arrive into an … Continue reading From the womb of Earth Mother
However, the real magic is within something else and it is what makes the difference to it all. At this present time it is what keeps us way above any man-made creation that is possible, using science and technology of today, unable to improve upon the abilities of our mind and body – for now! It is our Consciousness and Awareness that places us on an unequalled strata above the most powerful computer or machine in the world . Continue reading Making the first move
While I know that my life is rich in so many ways and I have the love of some of the most beautiful souls that I have encountered in my life, I still find myself in a moment of such … Continue reading Flow of the tide
Celibacy is a voluntary vow of sexual abstinence. In some cases, it can also be a promise to remain unmarried. Celibacy looks different to each person, so there’s no single way to practice it. Some people abstain from all sexual activity (including penetrative and non-penetrative sex), while others engage in things like outercourse. Although celibacy is usually associated with religion, there are a number of reasons why someone might choose to remain celibate. Continue reading An awareness of celibacy
Shifting sands When we take a moment to look back at our past, we can realise a shift in what can be perceived as a movement of some nature, that has propelled us through numerous events and experiences, life’s lessons, … Continue reading Nine years of change
Breathing is an essential and natural thing that we all do from the moment we enter this world. What is more fascinating is that today, most people do not breathe in a way that is good for their health and … Continue reading Breath a better life
We may not have realised what we have been to doing since our childhood is nothing less than amazing! You may scoff at the idea but it is true, we may have simply lost the ability to believe and understand … Continue reading We create the amazing daily
Since birth, I spent my life living with my parents up until the age of 21. When I was 16 my sister got married and moved out of the family home to live with her husband. I too got married … Continue reading A world of twos and ones
If there was only one video that you chose to watch this year, let it be this one! The rest of your life, your children and future generations may depend upon learning the information in the four hour video featured … Continue reading The begining of the end
No anger only hurt I recently became aware that throughout my life the feeling of anger has been almost completely absent in any presence, in the way I could feel and sense something. To relate as an emotional response to … Continue reading Absorbing negative energy
People can devote their lives in an attempt to understand themselves, who and what we are and what life is? Why are we here and what is our purpose? Eternal questions that appear to have puzzled and plagued many throughout … Continue reading Humanity, one race, one planet, one force
I choose to share this with others along with what I learn and experience along this path. I am living my life’s purpose knowingly and consciously. I wake with a heart full of love that gets filled further daily. Life is just so rich in its beauty and magic as we as humans are too. The amazing thing that occurs in our bodies every second of our life, is no less amazing than the universe itself because that is what we are. Continue reading Developing wings
Through what is now being presented to the world as our perceived future, by those with unimaginable wealth, power and influence across the world, and at the core of corporations, global commerce, embedded in governments and banking everywhere, are visions of a handful of individuals. In essence, a non-elected group of the worlds wealthiest and privileged Continue reading The Monetisation of Oneness
I know from personal experience that this happens on many different levels and reasons, in all forms of creativity. So what is creativity and why does this occur, especially when carried out with one other person or many? By definition … Continue reading Connection through Creativity
What we see through our eyes is like watching a silent movie, images received as frequencies of light that allow us to perceive colour, shape, size and distance. We add a soundtrack to that movie of life with the immense range … Continue reading The gift of voice
A belief is not a truth A belief can trap you in your mind and make you suffer or be a victim for your whole life or not, it can make you ill or well. It can affect so much … Continue reading Truth and Beliefs
That is a very simple question that we can ask ourselves but are unlikely to have asked it to ourselves. Unless you have already reached a level of understanding who and what you are. Who and what we are eternal … Continue reading Is that yours or is that you?
The statement ‘We teach what we need to learn’, is a very powerful one and can be helpful in understanding ways in which we can educate ourselves while passing knowledge to others. Sometimes we can be advised not to take … Continue reading We teach what we need to learn ourselves
Imagine when you were a child and that your parents became aware of something, let’s say ‘out of balance’ with you, and you appeared to be suffering on the inside. While you know them to be loving and caring parents, … Continue reading Happily locked in, key thrown away?
I used to put my fragility down to a lack of confidence as it seemed the most likely and obvious for most of my life. Over the past year I have learned much more about myself, been able to look back at my life and understand things in a clearer manner, with detachment and honesty with a better informed perspective of it all. Continue reading 222 = High sensitivity
It is not enough to understand What Am I without Who Am I. They are inseparable, while very different parts of our totality. We need to understand both equally and bring them into our awareness to becoming whole and complete. When achieved, we can consider ourselves to be elevated to a higher frequency Continue reading Learning to fly
The greatest and most empowering decision that I have ever made and so very grateful for is – just to be, who I always have been ! Continue reading Committed to transition?
2020 has been one of the most surprising and strangest years of my life so far! The symbol used to depict the sign of Aquarius consists of stacked wavy lines. The most likely conclusion is that they represent water as … Continue reading Entering the Age of Aquarius
Everything starts with a thought We are very familiar with how we protect and care for the things we invest our hard earned money into. Our valued and coveted possessions can sometimes rank higher than ourselves in how we can … Continue reading Taking responsibility for yourself
The feeling of being helpless is a self defeating emotion that disables you To get past that negative state of mind, you can think your way out of it or something or someone else can pull you out of it. … Continue reading Stop feeling helpless
The title may appear to make no sense at all when you first read it, but let me explain how we can find ourselves doing exactly just that in our present life. Describing going through transition as emotional and traumatic, … Continue reading Mourning for yourself
The feeling of needing to Pass is a result of conditioned thinking that we adopt unwittingly and unconsciously through what we refer to as social pressure and the ‘norm’. But those concepts and ways of looking at the world, are simply the beliefs of others, who do not have to deal with the displacement that we need to manage and resolve, just to have a basic simple and happy life. Continue reading The Seeds of ‘Passing’
Allow your head and heart to help you be yourself Through the centuries the heart has been regarded in literature, poetry, art song and society as a symbol of love, faith and courage and more. It is has been used to … Continue reading A mindful heart
There is more than one path to becoming the person you want to be, it doesn’t have to be one of suffering and pain Not that I have encountered anyone yet, but you may be among the fortunate who find … Continue reading Adversity creates change
The three keys to a great life Three months ago, I created the first episode for an ongoing live broadcast titled Live Sessions*; for a website where I am a part of the team that runs the site. While writing … Continue reading Good things come in threes
This simple act can provide such power to your thinking, improve your life, world and beyond your imagination! This may not come about so easily, as most worthwhile things in life, but believe me it is worth every second of … Continue reading Change the negatives into positives
If you wish to bring about changes in your life, you must first learn do things differently Consider the possibility that we come into this world with an amount of pre-programming built into our core being. That new born children appear … Continue reading Bring about changes in your life
The changes that I began making to my life late in 2016, began a process that has been far greater in its effect and full of revelations that I could ever have expected at that time. The process began with gaining awareness of who I was and have been and now living that live fully. Continue reading Thank you from my heart
Introduction This is something I wrote in the very early stages of my transition; at a point where I was becoming increasingly focused on my life path up to that point. I realised that my life had followed a pattern, … Continue reading Learning to love yourself completely – updated
When I wrote this article, I was totally unaware of the imminent release of the excellent documentary Disclosure, directed by Sam Feder and produced by Laverne Cox and Amy Scholder. I most strongly recommend that you watch this important and … Continue reading You’ve been Tagged
Did that make you grit your teeth? Make you laugh? Or maybe smile? When I wrote this article, I was totally unaware of the imminent release of the excellent documentary Disclosure, directed by Sam Feder and produced by Laverne Cox … Continue reading It’s good to be different
Saturday morning and I was feeling in a slightly better mood. After lunch I put on some relaxing piano music and lit some incense sticks, partly to clear the air from the aromas of my cooking, but I like the vibe too. A couple of hours passed with more incense sticks, accompanied by the dulcet tones of relaxed riffs of relaxing piano tunes. I was in a very calm and chilled mood when the doorbell rang; welcoming in my friend, she commented on the music, incense, and my super relaxed demeaner. Continue reading 180 degrees of change
She believed our meeting was 3.30 that day, whereas I believed it was 11am, hence my arrival! There was no way I was returning home having only viewed one house and quickly agreed to meet later. From that point onward my life changed in a series of coincidences, something that I could never have engineered if I had tried. A moment when the word synchronicity came into my mind, as events began to happen in a way that I had not experienced, almost appearing to be out of my hands or control. Continue reading Destroy before you can create
Little did I know just how my life would transpire to evolve in the way that it has over the past few years! I could never have foreseen or predicted the outcome, which is still unfolding and presenting new horizons, ideas and concepts to me. Taking me forward on several plateaus simultaneously on spiritual and physical depths of discovery. Continue reading More than I ever expected
The term Two-Spirit is a fairly modern creation from 1990, describing a person who embodies their own spirit as male or female, plus a spirit of the opposite sex; within a society that accepted gender fluidity with individuals being valued more for their contribution to the community. It can also be described as creating four genders — male, female, male two-spirit and female two-spirit; living freely, able to choose how they dressed and lived their lives. The earliest form of LBGT perhaps?
I had already found that my thinking had gone down a similar path of ‘Polish’, not worrying about consequences and pushing for better things, hoping for a positive outcome; in some instances, putting my life on the line to get there. In my experience, once you have adopted that concept, it can be extremely liberating in its effect on how you make choices and move in directions that you would not have previously chosen, breaking out of your comfort zone. Continue reading Be a bit more Polish
It wasn’t a difficult thing for me to do once I had had made up my mind, this was something that I needed to do, there really was no other option that I could see that was a serious alternative. … Continue reading Did my world shrink?
There I was, sat by the side of the road waiting for a bus once again. A journey that I had started many times before, only this time I had a valid ticket. But this wasn’t like any other day! … Continue reading Enough is enough!
Life, a series of events and obstacles from the moment that we are conceived until the day we die Naturally, we are aware of the stages we go through from birth to old age, with fuzzy invisible divides that sit … Continue reading Jump up and touch the sky
and how it changed my life Let me start by defining Fear :- Fear is an emotion and as such can be controlled. It can exist at many levels with varying degrees of effect on our life and how we behave. … Continue reading Confronting fear . . .
There have been moments in my life that I’ve never really discussed with anyone before, small things that have accumulated in my memory over the years and are continually added to, a few recent ones are here. I remain unclear … Continue reading Being open and without fear, a Transgender life